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Monday, October 29, 2007

Conversations

A friend of mine told me something today that I want to post here because it really made me feel special:


Really Good Friend CT: I appreciate you support, no matter where life leads us all far or close; you will always be my one and only greatest friend! I love you a whole lot you are my homey for life and don’t you forget that.


Really good friends are hard to come by and I appreciate her friendship.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Happy Birthday to Me, Happy Birthday to Me.


Yesterday I celebrated a milestone: 35 Fabulous, Grown & Sexy. Wow, and I feel great. I feel every bit of fabulous, every bit of grown, and every bit of sexy. I love myself silly right now. I love my family. I love my friends. I like my job. I love life and it feels good. I know that this feeling is all because of God. Everything I feel is possible because of GOD and I am so thankful.



The best gift I received was when I got home and my youngest had a cup-cake with lit candles and he sang Happy Birthday in Spanish. He looked up the words on the internet. Awwwwww. That made my day.



To everyone who remembered and showed me love: I am so grateful. To those who forgot, thats okay, I feel fabulous anyway.



Happy Birthday to me!!!!

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

A Memory I Would Like to Erase.


Today is one of the saddest days. It's September 11 and although it has been six years, I try not to remember. Although I was not directly affected, the memory of the Twin Towers coming down brings tears to my eyes and I feel a weight on my heart. You would think that after six years I would forget, but it is just that I do not want to remember.


May God bless all those directly and indirectly affected by the collapse of the Twins. May God bless the Firefighters, Police Officers, EMS workers, and volunteers who put their lives on the line to save and/or help others. May God bless the servicemen and women who are still fighting for who knows what reason. May God bless us all.
Ever since September 11, 2001 I have not worked on that day. I was off on that day because I was taking the kids to the doctor. Then every year after that I just could not bring myself to work because it just felt like a day of mourning. I would always watch the news and memorials, and the reading of the names, and I would cry. As the years have gone by, it has become unbearable. I cannot bear to watch any more memorials. I do not want to watch any more movies. I wish the impossible. I wish this day would never have happened. It is the one memory I would like to erase.

Saturday, September 08, 2007

Dogs and Flying Sh*t

So I was away in Arizona for a whole week back in the beginning of August. The flight was long and awful. There was lots of turbulence. But I am glad we were safe. Thank God for that. I have objections over the fact that if I wanted to eat on the plane, I had to pay $5 to eat. So many issues with airlines, from the cost of a plane ticket, to the wait times, the flights are almost always late in departure and arrival, and I have to pay for my food. Good thing I bought my own food before I got on the plane. On the way back to NYC they were serving breakfast instead of lunch and only had limited quantities. Whats that about? Oh and I want to bring up that at the airport in Arizona, Phoenix to be exact, there was a woman in the bathroom walking her dog. I mean newspaper spread on the floor, dog trying to sh*t, walking her dog. WTF, after seeing that I was so ready to come home. I thought the crazy stuff only happened in NY, apparently not. So glad to be back home.

Sunday, August 12, 2007

Did she really just say that?

This is a real life conversation that I had:

Ignorant Girl: My favorite quote is "Unemployment insurance is a pre-paid vacation for freeloaders." by Ronald Reagan

Me: Hate to ask what you think about welfare?

Ignorant Girl: Poor people get everything, free housing, free food, free medical, free education, more $ for each kid, why the f*ck would you ever want to be a contributing citizen & work? Everyone I know on welfare is scamming it, I never met any legits. Best qualified should always get the job, pisses me off there are quotas, best qualified period.

Me: Well, well, well….that's quite an opinion there. Don’t know if I should RETORT or leave it alone.

That was the end of that conversation. I am not sure that at the time I could of been civilized enough to continue speaking to her. What I wanted to do is grab her by her hair and slam it against the wall and ask her what world had she been living in for her past 30 something odd years. I attribute her ignorance to being white. Not to say that all my white friends are ignorant but I know they don't all think like this. Do they???

Now that its been a few days I will start with her first comment. How can unemployment insurance be a pre-paid vacation? Correct me if I am wrong? but don't you originally have to be working to collect unemployment insurance? Does she think that most people quit their jobs to get unemployment insurance, which is never the amount you were making in the first place? I am sure there are people who delay going back to work to collect unemployment but that does not apply to everyone. Plus who pays unemployment insurance? States set up trust funds to pay be able to pay unemployment insurance to certain qualified individuals. I think I pay enough taxes that if I am unemployed, I should be able to get some funds for a little while until my next job. And last I checked unemployment is not only for poor Black/Brown people.

Now for her welfare comments. "Poor people get everything.........." Is she suggesting that being poor is lucrative. Is she suggesting that people strive to stay poor so that they can continue getting everything? To this I say research your government reform laws on welfare. because the last time I checked ONE person on welfare gets 68.50 bi wkly and as far as free education and free housing,has she seen OUR school system and it's FREE education? NYC public schools are not havens of education. People send there children to NYC public schools because they can not afford the private ones. Has she ever lived in these so called free housing? The projects are no Trump Towers. Plus, it is not free to live in the projects. Rent is according to income. Which by the way does anyone know what it costs to live in NY these days. Rents are ridiculous. Thank goodness for public housing, shabby as it is and all.

Now about EVERYONE on welfare that she knows being scammers. Who are her circle of friends? I know several former welfare recipients, me included. The emphasis is on FORMER. I didn't strive to stay on welfare. I didn't even want to be on welfare. I used it because I needed it and I was working all the while. I just wasn't making enough to support myself at the time so it was a supplement. That was then and this is now. So here comment is pure bullsh*t.

As far as quotas go: If it wasn't for quotas black/brown people wouldn't get the job even if they were qualified. Most if not all jobs would go to the most qualified WHITE person. If it wasn't for quotas we might not get into certain schools. Segragation was NOT that long ago. If you have been reading the current news, segragation is still being fought in the courts. This is 2007.

To all who share the ignorant opinion: Educate yourself before you speak so that you can stop talking SH*T.

Friday, August 10, 2007

Frases Celebres de Mujer, Citas, Refranes, Proverbios, y Pensamnientos

La mujer es la salvación o la perdición de la familia.Amiel

La mujer es el hombre imperfecto.Averroes

La mujer es la reina del mundo y la esclava de un deseo.Balzac

Una mujer virtuosa tiene en el corazón una fibra de menos o una de más que las otras mujeres: o es estúpida o es sublime.Balzac

La mujer más despreocupada siente una voz interna que le dice: "Sé bella si puedes, sé sabia si quieres, pero sobre todo trata de ser estimada: es necesario".Beaumarchais

Una mujer bella es un brillantísimo espejo que se empaña al menor soplo.Cervantes

La mujer ha de ser buena, y parecerlo, que es más.Cervantes

Es de vidrio la mujer pero no se ha de probar si se puede o no quebrar, porque todo podría ser.

Y es más fácil el quebrarse y no es cordura ponerse a peligro de romperse lo que no
puede soldarse.Cervantes

Una mujer sin ternura es una monstruosidad social, todavía más que un hombre sin coraje.Augusto Compte

Casi todas las mujeres hablan bien del amor; es el gran asunto de su vida.Benjamín Constant

La mujer no se acuerda nunca de lo que habéis hecho por ella; solamente se acuerda de lo que no habéis hecho.G. Courteline

Es preciso elegir entre amar a las mujeres o conocerlas; no hay otro medio.Chamfort

La mujer que se estima a sí misma más por las cualidades de su alma o de su espíritu que de su belleza, es superior a su sexo.Chamfort

La verdadera hermosura y la gala más preciosa de la mujer es el hablar escaso.Demócrito
La mujer, solo el diablo sabe lo que es; yo no lo sé en absoluto.Dostoiewsky

Hay hombre tan maldito que dice que la mujer no es buena sólo porque una no quiso ser mala.Feijóo

La mujer es un animal vulgar del cual el hombre se ha hecho un ideal demasiado bello.G. Flaubert

No olvidéis aquello que ha dicho alguien: la mujer no ha nacido para que se la comprenda, sino para que se la ame.Federico García Sánchiz

Los hombres no pensamos nunca, al juzgar una mujer, que es muy difícil ser una mujer.Paúl Geraldy

El amor en la mujer está siempre mezclado con una admiración involuntaria, y cesa cuando cree convencerse de que el hombre le es inferior.Hebbel

En la mujer, verdaderamente mujer, no hay nada que no esté en relación con su marido, con su hijo o con su amante.Hebbel

Una mujer ignorante podrá ser buena esposa, buena madre; podrá manejar la aguja, pero será siempre una compañera menos estimada que aquella que añada a esas virtudes y cualidades útiles, conocimientos agradables y una imaginación cultivada.Jay

La mujer en el paraíso perdido, mordió el fruto del árbol de la ciencia diez minutos antes que el hombre; y ha mantenido después siempre estos diez minutos de ventaja.Alfonso Karr

¿Quién puede bajar los ojos como una mujer? ¿Y quien sabe alzarlos como ella?Kierkegaard

Las mujeres no simpatizan entre sí por los mismos motivos que agradan a los hombres.La Bruyère

Las mujeres son excesivas: mejores o peores que los hombres.La Bruyère

Las mujeres que aman perdonan más fácilmente las grandes indiscreciones que las pequeñas infidelidades.La Rochefoucauld
Si hay debajo de la luna cosa que merezca ser estimada y preciada es la mujer buena.Fray Luís de León
La mujer, de su natural, es movediza y liviana sin constancia en su ser.Fray Luís de León
Hay ciertas cosas en las cuales una mujer ve siempre más a fondo que cien ojos de hombre.G. El Lessing
En las horas graves, las mujeres inspiran por la sensibilidad, por la pasión y por la iniciativa, superior a la de los hombres.Michelet

La mujer es un hermoso defecto de la Naturaleza.Milton

Una mujer hermosa agrada a los ojos; una mujer buena agrada al corazón: la primera es un dije, la segunda es un tesoro.Napoleón

La mujer más insigne es la que mayor número de hijos da a la patria.Napoleón

El hombre es, para la mujer, un medio; el fin es siempre el hijo.Nietzsche

En la venganza, como en el amor, la mujer es más bárbara que el hombre.Nietzsche

La mujer perfecta es un tipo más elevado de la humanidad que el hombre perfecto; es también algo más raro.Nietzsche

Las mujeres, cuando aman, ponen en el amor algo divino. Tal amor es como el sol, que anima a la Naturaleza.Plutarco

El hombre reina y la mujer gobierna.Ponson du Terrail

La mujer ríe cuando puede y llora cuando quiere.Proverbio francés

Aunque tu mujer haya cometido cien faltas, no la golpees ni con una flor.Proverbio indio

La mujer sabía edifica su casa; más la necia con sus manos la derriba.Proverbio bíblico

En el diccionario de la mujer, "querer" no tiene, en la mayoría de los casos, más acepción que "estimar", es decir, "valorar".Ramón y Cajal

La mujer es como la mochila en el combate. Sin ella se lucha con desembarazo: ¡pero! y ¿al acabar?Ramón y Cajal

La mujer es la píldora amarga de la naturaleza y el arte se ha complacido en dorarla para que el hombre trague más fácilmente.Ramón y Cajal

La mujer hermosa es un peligro. La mujer fea es un peligro y una desgracia.Santiago Rusiñol

La mujer es un manjar digno de los dioses, cuando no lo guisa el diablo.Shakespeare

¡Fragilidad, tienes nombre de mujer!Shakespeare

De las mujeres debe temerse todo, especialmente su perdón.A. Stahl

Una mujer es capaz de amar, y, en un año entero, no decir más que diez o doce palabras al hombre a quien prefiere.Stendhal

El mayor defecto de las mujeres, el más ofensivo de todos para un hombre un poco digno de este nombre, es su preocupación de la opinión pública.Stendhal

Una mujer sacrificará mil veces la vida por el que ama y se enemistará para siempre con él por una cuestión de orgullo a propósito de una puerta cerrada o abierta: se trata de un punto de honor.Stendhal

Oh, Mujer, cuando te mueves en las ocupaciones del hogar, tu cuerpo canta como un riachuelo de montaña entre las piedras.Rabindranath Tagore

El hombre para el campo y la mujer para el hogar; el hombre para la espada y ella para la aguja; el hombre con la cabeza y la mujer con el corazón; el hombre para el mando y la mujer para la obediencia: todo lo demás es confusión.Tennyson

El primero que comparó la mujer a una flor, fue un poeta; el segundo un imbécil.Voltaire

La mujer en tanto no ama y no sufre, es como una lámpara no encendida aún.M. de Waleffe

Mientras una mujer pueda parecer diez años más joven que su hija, es completamente feliz.Wilde

Las mujeres han sido hechas para ser amadas no para ser comprendidas.Wilde

No hay ninguna mujer genial. Las mujeres son un sexto decorativo. Nunca tienen nada que decir, pero lo dicen deliciosamente.Wilde

Si una mujer no puede hacer encantadoras sus faltas, no es más que una hembra.Wilde

Las mujeres viven por y para sus emociones. No tienen la menor filosofía de la vida.Wilde

Thursday, August 09, 2007

I love my job.

I just cant stress enough how important and how good it feels to go to work and love what you do and love to be where you are.

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Stop putting up with Adultery

I have been thinking alot about adultery lately and I have come to certain conclusions:

1. Adultery is unforgiveable. Meaning you should let his cheating a&& go. If he gets caught cheating once either he has been cheating all along and/or he is more prone to doing it again.

1. Men cheat because the mistress has a better attitude than the wife/girlfriend. Hello, the wife is doing all the cooking, cleaning, and picking up after the man. She may not always be in the best of moods or ready to drop it like its hot all the damn time cuz she is too damn tired.

2. The mistress has a good deal. She has no wifely duties and doesnt have to deal with the toilet seat being left up, the toothpaste being squeezed from the middle of the tube, you get what I am saying etc, etc.

3.All is well until said husband is busted and she gets the beatdown of her life by the wife. and then the husband becomes her live in because the wife kicked his sorry, trifiling a&& out. Then he becomes her problem.


.4And just when the mistress thinks she has won the grand prize......the cycle continues.

Thursday, January 18, 2007

"I've said thousands of times I'm not God."

"I've said thousands of times I'm not God.", says the phony psychic Sylvia Browne. The author of over a dozen "psychic" materials (books, CDs, etc.) was proven wrong the other day. Her abilities failed her and now she is being blamed for the delay in the return of the missing child. Shame on you for falling for this nonsense. Now that she has admitted to not being GOD, maybe you lost souls out there will stop putting your faith and trust in the fallible, and hopefully you can actually save a few dollars to spend on something more worthwhile.

She told them boy was dead
Crystal ball fails psychic in Mo. kidnap

BY CHRISTINA BOYLE DAILY NEWS WRITER

Montel Williams' psychic pal Sylvia Browne told the family of missing Shawn Hornbeck he was dead shortly after the Missouri boy vanished - and later allegedly offered to help locate his body for $700 per half hour.
The popular TV clairvoyant appeared on the "Montel Williams Show" in February 2003, four months after Shawn disappeared, and told Pam and Craig Akers she believed their son was "no longer with us."
She also advised that his body could be found in a wooded area 20 miles from their Richwoods, Mo., home, near two large jagged boulders.
Shawn, now 15, was found alive and well last Friday, living just miles away with a man now charged with snatching the boy when he was 11.
Browne's "vision" of his death caused search teams to redirect their efforts and drew dozens of calls from the public who believed they lived near the woods matching Browne's descriptions.
The family also claims the psychic then tried to cash in, which Browne vigorously denies.
"She called Pam and Craig about one month after the show and pretty much offered her services to continue their discussion for a fee," said Wayne Evans, a spokesman for the Shawn Hornbeck Foundation.
"Pam was that desperate that if she had had $700 in her bank account she would have put it on the table. We are talking about a mother who would have sold her soul to have her boy back."
"Everybody was angry," he added. "Sylvia Browne's name was never brought up again until Shawn was found. He's home now, and that's all that matters."
Browne, a regular guest on the "Montel" show, apologized for her misfire, exposed first by StopSylviaBrowne.com, a blog dedicated to tracking the psychic's every blunder.
"I'm terribly sorry that this happened," she told the Daily News. "But I think my body of work stands by itself. I've broken case after case."
"I think it's just cruel to jump on this one case in which I was wrong," she added defensively. "I've said thousands of times I'm not God."
She also denied ever offering her services to Shawn's family for cash.
"There's never been a case that I've ever charged for a missing child," Browne said. "I would never do that. Never, never."
A spokeswoman for Williams said the talk show host was taping more shows and unavailable for comment. Browne was his only guest on yesterday's show.
Michael Devlin, the 300-pound pizza parlor manager charged with kidnapping Shawn four years ago and a second boy just last week, is to be arraigned today in Missouri courtroom.
He is also under investigation for the disappearance of another boy, Charles Arlin Henderson, 16 years ago.
http://www.nydailynews.com/01-18-2007/news/story/489641p-412369c.html