Pretty Hot And Tempting

Today’s hot topic on the Spanish radio was about younger females and men being tempted by them. Namely, there was a caller who was calling about his stepdaughter. He said that at 13, she had a “tremendo cuerpazo” meaning that she had the body of a 16 – 18 year old, and that she was very sexy. He also said that she wore thongs around the house, which is another blog in itself. Shame on her mother for not teaching her daughter to dress appropriate in front of the step-father or any man in the house for that matter. I dont care if its Tio, Cousin, Abuelo, who ever. To me there are certain rules when you live in the house with men who may or may not be relatives.

1. Don’t come out of the shower with just a towel.
2. Definitely don’t come out of the shower with less than a towel.
3. Be dressed appropriately at all times meaning NO walking around the house in panties, bras, thongs, lingerie.
4. Sit with your legs closed especially if your wearing a skirt.
5. It’s MY HOUSE and if you want to do any of the above GRADUATE and MOVE the F*CK OUT.

Back to the caller: He went on to say that he had thoughts about his step daughter and that she turned him on. He had only been in the house, part of the family for 4 to 5 years. Now this might make you sick, as it does me, but the truth of the matter is that he was being honest. And more truth to this—these things do happen. I for one know of a cousin who was molested by her “step-father”. Unfortunately her mother, didn’t believe her and she eventually left the house and turned to crack. Which is another blog in itself because as mothers we must, must, must ALWAYS put our children before ALL others, and if there is a potentially dangerous situation, then we must be reactive. I also have a neighbor who frequents strip clubs looking for girls who remind him of his stepdaughter because she is driving him mad with desire. He says his “step-daughter” is so tempting. And he talks about his lust for her with other guys. You won't believe this sicko "step-father" is a former cop. And what to say about the unsuspecting wife. Is it she blind or is it that she doesn't want to see?

Again its all so unfortunate and disgusting but these things do happen. I feel blessed because I don’t have any daughters and don’t have to worry about this. But I do have nieces, 2 of them live in the house without a man (thank GOD) but there may come a time when they do, 1 of them lives with her biological father, 1 of them lives with a creepy “step-grandfather” which I will save for another blog because her grandmother allows him to spank her, and 1 of them is grown (or at least she thinks so—I will always think she is too young) and she lives with her man. So while the worry is not in my home. I still have the worry about 3 of them. Personally for me, I could not live with a man if I had daughters. I would be to freaked out/ creeped out/paranoid by what could happen. So for me that would not work. Trying to merge a family when the boys were teen and preteen was hard enough with all the testorone in the house but that story is for another blog. But to all mothers—you need to be aware of this danger. And of course I am not saying that ALL men are like the caller and my neighbor—who have sexual thoughts and desires but only lust and fantasize, and I am not saying that ALL men are like my cousin’s “step-father—giving in to fantasies and desires and then molesting and raping her, But what I am saying is that there are varying degrees of men out there and mothers need to WATCH your daughters. It is a cruel, cruel world out there. WATCH YOUR DAUGHTERS!!!!! Better to be save than sorry.